Source of post: www.positiveindignation.blogspot.com.
It's definitely worth of time to read his posts.

"... I believe that before you start any relationship, you should at least be looking forward to an optimistic future....or rather, you should at least BELIEVE that both of you can reach that future together."

"So how does this link to differences? Because it is differences that stop some from believing in relationships. It was also partly "differences" that kept me from venturing a step forward. Half the time, they (people who don't believe in relationships) have the reason to -- how can you get along with someone for the rest of your life (or at least some part of your life) if you can't reach her/his world and she/he can't reach yours?"

And i'm still venturing about, and around...in time to come, perhaps forward, because the belief is there n' it's strong.