“如果真正爱一个人，就会多了解他的感受”

也许有过自私的想法，但我已尽了力做我最好最好了。。。却不够的好吧。。。
有时候，可能是真得失去理智，不能冷静地想。。。我能原谅，但一次又一次被刺激，世界上最冷静最有耐心的人也会疯去。

亲情，友情，爱情。。。全都围绕着爱。有时，一个人不是不爱人，而是不懂得怎么表现他的爱，不懂得怎么爱一个人。就像第一局所现的 “如果真正爱一个人，就会多了解他的感受”。

不懂怎么爱一个人在我眼里只不过是个借口，真正爱一个人是不用口说，不用 “我爱你” 来显示爱。真正爱一个人，就会多明白他，多了解他的感受，多站在他的立场想。。。那就真正爱一个人了。。。

如果每个人都尽力多了解对方，对身边的人多关心点，付出多一点的爱，不就那么的完美吗？为什么在这世界上，还有那么多自私想法的人呢？ 是我们政府教育方法错呢？还是这世界正是那么地残忍？我不明白。。。真的不明白；可能这一辈子也不会明白。。。

也许这是个事实我还不能够接受。

天真，我真的太天真了。


For English readers, this is the English version... (perhaps it has more meaning in chinese, i dunno')

"If you truly love someone, you would try to understand the person more"

As much as i had selfish thoughts lingering in my mind before, but i've tried my best, i've given my best... or perhaps not the best, yet.

At times, the mind loses its control, calm is never a word understandable by it.
I can forgive... however not to the extent where it happens too repetitively. However sane or calm a person may be, he will lose his sanity too.

Kinship, Friendship, Relationship, they are all about love. At times, it's not that a person do not love others, it's that they do not know how to love others.

Just like the main message that i'm bringing across "If you truly love someone, you would try to understand the person more"... in my opinion... It's just an excuse that one do not know how to love a person. Loving someone wholeheartedly requires no words to express one's love. It's something deep down that we feel in our hearts. It's this special connection that bonds all our loved ones together, that is, if we've given real love and opened our heart to receive others' love. "I love you" is just an over-rated phrase. Loving someone truly would only mean you tried understanding the person more, sparing a thought for their feelings, and always being very generous in giving out your love.

If everyone tried putting effort in understanding each other, showing more care to the people around them, loving them truly, wouldn't it be so perfect? Why, in this world must it be so harsh in reality...? With selfish thoughts in our minds.... is it the government's fault? Or the upbringing of one? I don't understand... i just don't understand.. maybe i won't in my whole life too...

Or perhaps... it's just a fact that i've never tried accepting...

Naive... I'm too naive my dear.

Can anyone prove to me that this is not the actual world we're living in? Or maybe, before expecting people to change, the first thing's to deal with oneself.