Tuesday, September 07, 2010

Good things to remember in life

1) 没有人是不可代替的,没有东西是必须拥有的。看透了这一点。将来你身边的人不再要你,或许失去了世间上最可爱的一切时,也应该明白,这并不是什么大不了不得的事。
(No one is irreplaceable and there is nothing in this world that is a must-have. Once you have completely understood this,when a close one leaves you, or when you lose everything there is to love in the world,you are aware that it is not that big of a deal at the end of the day.)

2)世界上并没有最爱这回事,爱情只是一种霎时的感觉。而这感觉绝对会随时间,心境而改变。如果你所谓最爱的离开了你,请耐心的等一下,让时日慢慢冲洗,让心灵慢慢沉淀,你的苦就会慢慢淡化。不要过分憧憬爱情的美,不要过分夸大失恋的悲伤。
(There is no such thing as having a most beloved. Love is merely a transient feeling.This feeling will fade with time, and change when circumstances change. One day, if your beloved decides to leave you, please be patient. Let time heal the wounds, let your mind slowly stabilise; thereafter your pain will slowly, but surely be alleviated. Don't look forward to love excessively and don't exaggerate the sadness when love is lost.)

3)你可以要求自己守信,但不能要求别人守信,你可以要求自己对人好,但不能期待人家对你好,你怎样对人,并不代表别人就会怎样对你,如果看不透这一点,只会增加不必要的烦恼。
(You may expect yourself to keep a code of honour, but don't expect others to do likewise. You may expect yourself to treat others well, but don't expect others to treat the same way like you did. How you treat others, may not be how others might treat you back. Having completely understood this, you will have lesser unnecessary worries.)

4)亲人只有一次的缘分,无论这辈子我和你会相处多久,也请好好珍惜共聚的时光;下辈子,无论爱与不爱,都不会再见。
(There is only once in a lifetime opportunity to be family members. It doesn't matter how long we will remain as family members in this lifetime, as long as we treasure the time spent together as a family. Because in the next life, even if we want to be a family again; it will never happen.)

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